When you're in bed with your lover, the last
thing you want to do is turn them off. That
said, here are a few common blunders that
you should not commit.
1. Not kissing
Believe it or not, many people (and this
includes women) don't kiss their partner
when they're having sex. Why? Perhaps
because the positioning doesn't allow for it
or they are too eager to climax and feel that
it might break the rhythm. Nevertheless, it is
highly recommended that you make an
effort to kiss your partner during the act - it
will only add to the experience.
2. Biting before your partner's ready
While many people enjoy an aggressive
partner, biting any part of their body before
they are aroused may lead to pain and
discomfort (and might even lessen the
chances of any further action ) or simply
scare them off. So make sure your partner is
fully excited before you bite their ear,
shoulders, neck or any other part of their
body.
3. Ignoring everything but sexualised
parts
Genitals are great, no doubt, but you should
definitely pay attention to other parts of
your lover's body and focus for some time on
their entire body - knees, wrists, back and
stomach are highly erogenous zones for men
as well as women. Gently caressing these
areas will help excite your partner further;
in turn, increasing the chances of them
pleasuring you back.
4. Putting your weight on your partner
Even if you're a girl! It's okay to lose
yourself in the moment every once in a
while and go crazy on your lover. But when
you're lying on top of them, you have to be
careful not to drop your weight on them.
Chocking them or hindering their ability to
breathe will anyway kill the moment and
any chances of some good action.
5. Climaxing too soon/ too late
This one is especially for men. You need to
have good control on your muscles to ensure
that you can ejaculate at an appropriate
time. Too soon and you may leave your
partner unsatisfied; too late and it might
leave your partner feeling as if they're
pumping iron at the gym. To avoid this,
spend a lot more time on foreplay (this will
help men as well as women). If you take too
long and can only ejaculate via manual
stimulation, do your best to get your partner
to orgasm and then they can return you the
favour.
6. Not warning your partner before you
climax
If you're going to let go - and this applies
even to women - whether during oral sex or
intercourse, you need to tell your partner
beforehand. Something as simple as "I'm
going to let go," will suffice. Your partner
deserves to know.
7. Treating sex like porn
Although some couples enjoy having
raunchy sex, you'd be wise to talk to your
partner before you engage in such
behaviour. If you begin being nasty with
your lover without knowing if they like it
first, chances are the scenario won't end on
a happy note.
8. Staying quiet
Do you like to hear it when your partner is
having a good time? So pay them the same
respect and speak up when you're enjoying
yourself. Something as simple as a little
moan, or even saying something like, "that
feels so good," will encourage them and
educate them further on your moan zones.
9. Mechanical act
It may feel comfortable to you to pump away
like you do at the gym, but you'll quickly
discover that most people don't enjoy such
an act. Mix it up a little bit; go fast at times,
then slowly. Be creative and you'll find
yourself enjoying some variation too.
thing you want to do is turn them off. That
said, here are a few common blunders that
you should not commit.
1. Not kissing
Believe it or not, many people (and this
includes women) don't kiss their partner
when they're having sex. Why? Perhaps
because the positioning doesn't allow for it
or they are too eager to climax and feel that
it might break the rhythm. Nevertheless, it is
highly recommended that you make an
effort to kiss your partner during the act - it
will only add to the experience.
2. Biting before your partner's ready
While many people enjoy an aggressive
partner, biting any part of their body before
they are aroused may lead to pain and
discomfort (and might even lessen the
chances of any further action ) or simply
scare them off. So make sure your partner is
fully excited before you bite their ear,
shoulders, neck or any other part of their
body.
3. Ignoring everything but sexualised
parts
Genitals are great, no doubt, but you should
definitely pay attention to other parts of
your lover's body and focus for some time on
their entire body - knees, wrists, back and
stomach are highly erogenous zones for men
as well as women. Gently caressing these
areas will help excite your partner further;
in turn, increasing the chances of them
pleasuring you back.
4. Putting your weight on your partner
Even if you're a girl! It's okay to lose
yourself in the moment every once in a
while and go crazy on your lover. But when
you're lying on top of them, you have to be
careful not to drop your weight on them.
Chocking them or hindering their ability to
breathe will anyway kill the moment and
any chances of some good action.
5. Climaxing too soon/ too late
This one is especially for men. You need to
have good control on your muscles to ensure
that you can ejaculate at an appropriate
time. Too soon and you may leave your
partner unsatisfied; too late and it might
leave your partner feeling as if they're
pumping iron at the gym. To avoid this,
spend a lot more time on foreplay (this will
help men as well as women). If you take too
long and can only ejaculate via manual
stimulation, do your best to get your partner
to orgasm and then they can return you the
favour.
6. Not warning your partner before you
climax
If you're going to let go - and this applies
even to women - whether during oral sex or
intercourse, you need to tell your partner
beforehand. Something as simple as "I'm
going to let go," will suffice. Your partner
deserves to know.
7. Treating sex like porn
Although some couples enjoy having
raunchy sex, you'd be wise to talk to your
partner before you engage in such
behaviour. If you begin being nasty with
your lover without knowing if they like it
first, chances are the scenario won't end on
a happy note.
8. Staying quiet
Do you like to hear it when your partner is
having a good time? So pay them the same
respect and speak up when you're enjoying
yourself. Something as simple as a little
moan, or even saying something like, "that
feels so good," will encourage them and
educate them further on your moan zones.
9. Mechanical act
It may feel comfortable to you to pump away
like you do at the gym, but you'll quickly
discover that most people don't enjoy such
an act. Mix it up a little bit; go fast at times,
then slowly. Be creative and you'll find
yourself enjoying some variation too.
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