I can’t get my husband’s food ready and at the same time be his fantasy séx partner. It is not possible. One has to give way. A working class wife told me this on the phone. He wants his food and séx at the time I thought the ‘only way to a man’s heart is through his stomach’. Well, the truth is that even after you feed your man well with the best delicacies that money can buy, with an average husband, food and séx still goes hand-in-glove.
Ladies, no matter what you think, it is what you do in bed and in other matters, apart from food, that will guarantee a sealed deal between you and your man.
I am not saying that giving him good séx is the ‘only’ way to set your marriage on the path of bliss. What I mean is that everything else could amount to nothing without great séx. As a matter of fact, séx is so important to your man, just as it is to other men. It will be unwise not to live up to his expectation in bed even if you are a good cook.
Although most women are not trained to make their men eat well and at the same time be good in bed and make their husbands scream their heads off in the heat of the action, it will not hurt to appreciate the fact that séx is an art that one can learn.
I want to talk about what every woman who wants to keep her man should know. They are little things that we always take for granted, which frankly speaking, make a world of difference between satisfying our men séxually and alienating them, thereby, giving room to unnecessary quarrels in the home.
To begin with, if there is one place in your home that you need to pay a lot of attention to, it is the kitchen and the bedroom. As much as every woman endeavours to keep her kitchen neat and good, wise women understand the need to turn the bedroom into one unpretentious séx theatre.
Everything in your bedroom must look, smell and taste séxy from the beddings to the décor and right down to the lighting. It is important to eliminate distractions by restricting, for example, the television set to the sitting room (where it really ought to be) and ensuring that books remain in the study. The bedroom should only be for making romantic conversation, curdling and sleeping in a peaceful manner, and for making hot and unforgettable séx. Nothing else is acceptable.
The kitchen has been known to be the woman’s territory. Ladies, you should keep your ‘séxual empire’ neat at all times. Nothing kills the passion faster than faded, unappealing and ugly grandma-type of underwear, or cheap, low quality brassiéres and pyjamas. Investing in good and séxy lingerie will not only elicit an appreciative response from your husband, it will also ensure that you get his praises for food well prepared and undivided attention.
Flaunt your God-given body lustfully before your man while serving his meal because it is your unique gift to him. A confident display of your body in a séductive manner is a sure turn-on for any man, and quite honestly, chances are he will not care that your figure is not the drop-dead, come-hither type that keeps heads turning in its direction.
It will not cost you a dime to be adventurous in your own bédroom. Place his food on a small side table in the bédroom. It is the perfect place to whet his séxual fantasy. While you are at it, remember that going through the same séxual routine all the time will lead both of you nowhere. Therefore, it is important to break the monotony by trying out something new.
For example, you can decide to share his meal in-between you on the bed and afterwards, turn off the light and seal the dinner with ‘desert séx’ and surprise him with a bit of bédroom acrobatics. If he is the one who makes the first move, now is the time to take the initiative for a change. Go all out to spice up your séx life. Dream up new ideas.
Doing this will not make you look like a slut; rather it will transform you into every man’s dream. Believe me, with most men, there is nothing that is as thrilling as a wife with a creative chef habit and a healthy séxual appetite.
If the kitchen activities are cumbersome, there are caterers who specialise in preparing special local delicacy. They are all around us, once in a while you can place an order and make do with such for a while. Some people can cook better than you do and feed your family well with a healthy balance diet, but nobody else should be able to give him great séx. So when it comes to placing priority, food and séx with man most times go hand in glove
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