Men who have a wife and children at home, will
lie to you endlessly for not being able to meet
up with you, or not being able to accompany
you for shopping or a movie.
The reasons to not get involved with a married
man are plenty — heartbreaks, being called the
‘other woman’ so on and so forth. Here are
some sound reasons as to why you shouldn’t
be dating a married man.
1. Wrong
No matter how much you try to prove yourself
right — there are no justifications when it
comes to dating a married person. It is
considered to be ‘ethically wrong’ and could
hamper your life in more ways than one.
2. Second best
When you get involved with a married man, no
matter how much he claims you to be his true
love, at the end of the day, his wife
and family (kids) will be his first priority.
Remember that he will come up with a host of
excuses to cover up for cheating on his family
— but when it comes to choosing between his
family and you, it will always be his family.
3. Lies
Another reason to not get involved with a
married man is lies. Men who have a wife and
children at home, will lie to you endlessly for
not being able to meet up with you, or not
being able to accompany you for shopping or
a movie.
4. Would you like it?
Just for a second, wait and think. Had you
found out that your husband is cheating not
only on you but your kids as well — would you
approve of it? Let it pass by? Cheating in any
form is disgraceful. More than that, you can
never guarantee that he will leave his wife and
kids and accept you legally.
THIS IS AN OPINION.AND IT NEEDS TO BE WELL DEBATED.
ReplyDeleteAN AFRICAN MAN IS ENTITLED TO MANY WIVES.BECAUSE OF THEIR NATURE.
AND ENGLISHMAN IS ENTITLED TO A WIFE BY THEIR NATURE.
STATISTICALLY,THE AFRICAN MARRIAGES EXPERIENCES LESS DIVORCE CASES FROM INCEPTION.HARDLY YOU WILL SEE A WOMAN OR HER HUSBAN DIVORCING HER FOR ANY REASON.
IF THERE IS ANY DIFFERENCES,THE FAMILY MEMBERS ARE ALWAYS THERE TO INTERVENE AND THE PROBLEM IS RESOLVED.
THESAME IS NOT WITH ENGLISH SYSTEM OF MARRIAGE.IN THIS CASE YOU CAN MARRY YOUR WIFE ANDTHIS MINUTE AND DIVORCE HER THE NEXT.
FOR? INSTANCE THE POPULAT LIZ TAYLOR(THE LATE ACTRES)MARRIES UP TO 58 TIMES.IN FACT HE MARRIED SOME OF HER HUSBAND 9 TIMES AND EVEN ONE 11 TIMES.IF MARRIAGE IS A RESPECTED INSTITUTION CAN THIS BE CALLED A MARRIAGE AGAIN?
BIBLICALLY,THERE IS NO SINGLE PERSON THAT THE BIBLE ABOUT THAT MARRIED ONE WIFE EXCEPT ISAAC.GOD NEVER COMPLAINED ABOUT TWO WIVES OR PUNISH ANYONE FOR HAVING TWO WIVES.
INFACT HE CHASTIZED KING DAVID FOR TAKEN HURRIAHs WIFE AND ASKED HIM IF HE HAD REQUESTED FOR MORE WIVES GOD WOULD HAVE GIVEN TO HIM AND HE REMINDED HIM THAT HE IS THE ONE THAT GAVE HIM HIS FATHERS WIVES.HOW? WHEN YOU BECOME A KING IN THOSE DAYS ALL THE WIVES IN THE PALACE ARE INHERITED.
NOW TO MARRIED MEN AND OTHER WOMEN
MARRIED MEN ARE THE BEST TO DATE,BECAUSE OF MODERN LIFE STYLE WE ALL KNOW THAT HE WILL NOT MARRY YOU NO MATTER THE LEVEL OF LOVE HE HAS FOR YOU.HE CAN ASSIST YOU IN MANY WAYS AND YOU CAN ALSO DO SAME FOR HIM.YOU ALREADY KNOW FROM DAY ONE THT HE WILL NOT MARRY YOU.IF YOU THEN HAVE A DIFFERENT OPINION FROM THIS THEN YOU ARE THE ONE THAT HAS A PROBLEM.
BUT INCASE OF BACHELOR YOU KNOW HE DOES NOT HAVE ANOTHER WIFE AND HE PROPOSED TO MARRY YOU NATURALLY YOU HAVE NO REASON TO DOUBT HIM BUT YOU WILL DISCOVER THAT IT IS EITHER HE WAS NOT READY AND JUST PLAYING GAMES OR YOUR ATTITUDE YOURSELF WILL NOT ALLOW HIM TO MAKE UP HIS MIND.SO IT IS A 50/50 THING.BUT WITH MARRY MAN YOU KNOW THE RESULT ALREADY.NO PRETENSE.
PLEASE SUPERIOR OPINION IS WELCOME
GBENGS
WELL YOU ARE RIGHT, BUT YOU NEED TO KNOW THAT INVADING ANODA WOMANS HOME IS A WRONG THING TO DO, IF THE LADY WAS IN THE MAN'S WIFE'S SHOES WOULD SHE PRAY FOR THE PERSON THATS TRYING TO TAKE HIS MAN?
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